Posted in How to Get Laid » Seduction Tips, » Pick Up Girls by Zac Laprie

Okay, let's get this out of the way right up front: If your goal is to sleep with as many women as possible, then we'd suggest that you're reading the wrong website.

You need to talk to a psychologist. Seriously. Not that you're nuts. It's just that you're out of balance. If your objective is as many notches on the bedpost as possible, then you have a problem and it's NOT that you're not getting laid as often as you'd like.

Here's the thing: Whilever your main goal is to become a player and bed as many beautiful women as you can, you're actually short-changing yourself in terms of your self-development. You see, you can go out and get laid every night of the week if you know how, using tricks, strategies and gimmicks or by memorizing "routines" and all sorts of other things that are taught, but...

Will they actually be the kinds of relationships (even short-term ones) that you want? Hey, don't misunderstand what we're saying here: Ain't nothing wrong with one night stands! Get out there and enjoy your life!

But do you really want to wake up beside some hot girl you just spent a (most likely) drunken night with and know that there's absolutely nothing to say to each other? Or, sneaking out before she wakes? Or calling a cab once the deed is done?

This is the sort of behaviour that makes people (both guys and gals) feel empty and sometimes even "dirty," whereas you can go out, meet cool chicks who are up for a night of fun, have breakfast or a coffee together and either decide to see each other again or, after some natural conversation in the cold light of day, decide it's better to leave it at that.

And, of course, if you do decide to keep on seeing each other... bonus! Laura and I would suggest that there aren't too many people reading this article who'd say no to a fuck-buddy: no strings, no jealousy, casual sex when you both want it.

Surely, these are the kinds of normal, laid-back women you want to pick up?

Sidenote: Hi, Laura here...

Some women really dislike the term "pick up women."

I can understand why, too. It is kinda sleazy the way most men use it, don't you think? Typically, the whole "how to pick up beautiful women" thing is about sleeping with as many girls as possible, like we're use-once-and-then-throw-away items. Eeeuuwww!

I don't have a problem with the term "pick up women" in general (and I use the term to talk about "picking up men," in fact!). And I don't have a problem with one night stands. But I do object to a man who has the "disposable commodity" approach to how to pick up women. I don't want to sleep with men like that and most other women don't either.

So c'mon guys, get real! Learn how to become the kind of guy you want to be and you'll find women are much more attracted to you! You'll be able to pick up the kind of women you WANT to spend time with and who want to spend time with you - instead of just attracting a woman, having a bit of fun, and moving on to the next one.

What us gals want is a Real Man: a well-adjusted, confident guy who knows what he wants, can make us laugh, and is comfortable in his own skin. These guys don't learn pick up tips or agonize over the best places to meet women. They get out there, get their head and life in order, learn how to talk to women in a way that doesn't give up their power, and the end result is that they pick up women at leisure.

Sorry, Zac! I just hijacked you're article, darling! What were you saying?

Uh... I was saying pretty much the same thing, really, which is why we run this website and why we're such a good couple.

If you want to learn how to pick up girls, then the best advice I (well, given that we see eye-to-eye on the matter, we) can give you is to get your head straight first. It'll have pay-offs that FAR, FAR outweigh the benefits of just more sex. You'll start to see the effects in all areas of your life.

And there's one guy's advice that I rate above all others for focusing you on how to attract women so that you end up with better quality gals in your life (for either sex or a relationship), by learning how to behave like the kind of man that women can't get enough of. Check it out. You'll never look back!

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